gh-95132: Correctly relay *args and **kwds from sqlite3.connect to factory (#95146)

This PR partially reverts gh-24421 (PR) and fixes the remaining concerns
given in gh-93044 (issue):

- keyword arguments are passed as positional arguments to factory()
- if an argument is not passed to sqlite3.connect(), its default value
  is passed to factory()

Co-authored-by: Serhiy Storchaka <storchaka@gmail.com>