bpo-45340: Don't create object dictionaries unless actually needed (GH-28802)

* Never change types' cached keys. It could invalidate inline attribute objects.

* Lazily create object dictionaries.

* Update specialization of LOAD/STORE_ATTR.

* Don't update shared keys version for deletion of value.

* Update gdb support to handle instance values.

* Rename SPLIT_KEYS opcodes to INSTANCE_VALUE.