#12537: in mailbox avoid depending on knowledge of email package internals

Previously mailbox was copying a list of attributes from one message object to
another in order to "copy the message data".  This means that any time new
attributes were added to email.message.Message, mailbox broke.  Now instead it
copies all attributes from the source object to the target object, skipping
any mailbox-object-specific attributes to produce the same clean initial
state it was previously getting by copying only the "known" attributes.

David Lam assisted in the development of this patch.