bpo-43795: PEP 652 user documentation (GH-25668)

- Reformat the C API and ABI Versioning page (and extend/clarify a bit)
- Rewrite the stable ABI docs into a general text on C API Compatibility
- Add a list of Limited API contents, and notes for the individual items. 
- Replace `Include/README.rst` with a link to a devguide page with the same info