[3.14] gh-133890: Handle UnicodeEncodeError in tarfile (GH-134147) (GH-134195)

UnicodeEncodeError is now handled the same way as OSError during
TarFile member extraction.
(cherry picked from commit 9983c7d4416cac8deb2fded1ec9c7daf786c3a02)

Co-authored-by: Serhiy Storchaka <storchaka@gmail.com>