gh-104372: Cleanup _posixsubprocess `make_inheritable` for async signal safety and no GIL requirement (#104518)

Move all of the Python C API calls into the parent process up front
instead of doing PyLong_AsLong and PyErr_Occurred and PyTuple_GET from
the post-fork/vfork child process.

Much of this was long overdue. We shouldn't have been using PyTuple and
PyLong APIs within all of these low level functions anyways.