gh-131253: free-threaded build support for pystats (gh-137189)

Allow the --enable-pystats build option to be used with free-threading.  The
stats are now stored on a per-interpreter basis, rather than process global.
For free-threaded builds, the stats structure is allocated per-thread and
then periodically merged into the per-interpreter stats structure (on thread
exit or when the reporting function is called). Most of the pystats related
code has be moved into the file Python/pystats.c.