bpo-43422: Revert _decimal C API addition (GH-24960)

Stefan Krah requested the reversal of these (unreleased) changes, quoting him:
> The capsule API does not meet my testing standards, since I've focused
on the upstream mpdecimal in the last couple of months.
> Additionally, I'd like to refine the API, perhaps together with the
Arrow community.

Automerge-Triggered-By: GH:pitrou