[3.13] gh-131788: make resource_tracker re-entrant safe (GH-131787) (#137738)

gh-131788: make resource_tracker re-entrant safe (GH-131787)
(cherry picked from commit f24a012350f71141648cbd61081a25a458dd7fff)

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