[3.14] gh-140193: Forward port test_exec_set_nomemory_hang from 3.13 (GH-140187) (#141420)

gh-140193: Forward port test_exec_set_nomemory_hang from 3.13 (GH-140187)

* chore: test_exec_set_nomemory_hang from 3.13
* fix: apply comments
* Update Lib/test/test_exceptions.py
* Update Lib/test/test_exceptions.py
* fix: windows too long name 60 times is enough

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(cherry picked from commit 0f09bda643d778fb20fb79fecdfd09f20f9d9717)

Signed-off-by: yihong0618 <zouzou0208@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: yihong <zouzou0208@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Peter Bierma <zintensitydev@gmail.com>