gh-125859: Fix crash when `gc.get_objects` is called during GC (#125882)

This fixes a crash when `gc.get_objects()` or `gc.get_referrers()` is
called during a GC in the free threading build.

Switch to `_PyObjectStack` to avoid corrupting the `struct worklist`
linked list maintained by the GC. Also, don't return objects that are frozen
(`gc.freeze()`) or in the process of being collected to more closely match
the behavior of the default build.