[3.13] gh-97850: Update the deprecation warning of `importlib.abc.Loader.load_module` (GH-129855) (GH-130013)

gh-97850: Update the deprecation warning of `importlib.abc.Loader.load_module` (GH-129855)
(cherry picked from commit aa81a6f6e4f265565da9781d0bf95c7d16ddd961)

Co-authored-by: Tomas R <tomas.roun8@gmail.com>