bpo-31499, xml.etree: Fix xmlparser_gc_clear() crash (#3641)

* bpo-31499, xml.etree: Fix xmlparser_gc_clear() crash

xml.etree: xmlparser_gc_clear() now sets self.parser to NULL to prevent a
crash in xmlparser_dealloc() if xmlparser_gc_clear() was called previously
by the garbage collector, because the parser was part of a reference cycle.

Co-Authored-By: Serhiy Storchaka <storchaka@gmail.com>