[3.12] gh-123700: Update OpenSSL versions in multissltests and CI (GH-123704)

Remove EOL 1.1.1w from CI and move it to the 'old' set in multissltests,
add latest 3.3.2 to both CI and multissltests.

(cherry picked from commit d83e30caddcbf9482273743d287577517ec735b7)

Co-authored-by: Zachary Ware <zach@python.org>