[3.12] gh-110950: add upstream Tk fixes to macOS installer. (GH-111041) (#112294)

Add upstream Tk patches for three problems affecting tkinter users:

- Update macOS installer to include a fix accepted by upstream Tcl/Tk
for a crash encountered after the first :meth:`tkinter.Tk` instance
is destroyed. (gh-92603)

- Update macOS installer to include an upstream Tcl/Tk fix
for the ``ttk::ThemeChanged`` error encountered in Tkinter. (gh-71383)

- Update macOS installer to include an upstream Tcl/Tk fix for the
``Secure coding is not enabled for restorable state!`` warning
encountered in Tkinter on macOS 14 Sonoma. (gh-110950)

(cherry picked from commit d67f947c72af8a215db2fd285e5de9b1e671fde1)

Co-authored-by: Christopher Chavez <chrischavez@gmx.us>
Co-authored-by: Ned Deily <nad@python.org>