gh-87868: Skip `test_one_environment_variable` in `test_subprocess` when the platform or build cannot do that (#113867)

* improve the assert for test_one_environment_variable
* skip some test in test_subprocess when python is configured with shared
* also skip the test if AddressSanitizer is enabled

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Co-authored-by: Steve Dower <steve.dower@microsoft.com>