Auto merge of #155444 - bjorn3:update_deps, r=jieyouxu

Update a bunch of dependencies to reduce windows-sys duplication

This gets rid of windows-sys 0.60 and with the exception of curl and stacker it gets rid of windows-sys 0.59. For stacker getting rid of windows-sys 0.59 is blocked on https://github.com/rust-lang/stacker/pull/145 and https://github.com/rust-lang/rust/pull/155438.