3.0 bump: dlclibrary (v0.0.12) and napari-deeplabcut (v3.1.0) (#3338)

* update uv.lock: bump dlclibrary and napari-deeplabcut

* update pyproject.toml

dlclibrary>=0.0.12
napari-deeplabcut>= 0.3.1

* upgrade uv.lock entirely

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Co-authored-by: Cyril Achard <cyril.achard@epfl.ch>