Reconnect VirtualizedList Source History 2/2 (Apply D41745930 + history, D42805202, D43063551)

Summary:
This change re-applies D41745930 (https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/2e3dbe9c2fbff52448e2d5a7c1e4c96b1016cf25) (and D42805202 (https://github.com/facebook/react-native/commit/1479b2ac26fded3840c596f53e6eb86a4b0c2c71) which was also partially reverted), re-registers additions as moves, then applies D43063551 which has been added to the changes since migration.

Changelog: [Internal]

Reviewed By: hoxyq

Differential Revision: D43068114

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