allow needless_option_take to report for more cases (#13684)

changelog:
```
changelog: [`needless_option_take`]: now lints for all temporary expressions of type  Option<T>.
```

fixes #13671

In general, needless_option_take should report whenever take() is called
on a temporary value, not just when the temporary value is created by
as_ref().

Also, we stop emitting machine applicable fixes in these cases, since
sometimes the intention of the user is to actually clear the original
option, in cases such as `option.as_mut().take()`.