Rollup merge of #156135 - oli-obk:def_id_to_node_id_reduction, r=petrochenkov

Remove most uses of def_id_to_node_id

Especially those happening during normal resolving, where we are actually looking at current parent scopes. It allows follow-up refactorings to not have a way to go from `NodeId` to `DefId` until macro expansion is done

r? @petrochenkov